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Thursday, May 28, 2009

I could never stand polygamy or worst, adultery. I don't mean to be paranoid but I can never accept the probability of it happening and the fact that it is really happening in real life. How could someone have the heart to betray your loved one and result in doing such a thing. It's just insane and inhumane.

I always end up watching shows that revolves around either one of these issues. Yes, i think it is an issue. An extremely disturbing one. An innocent pregnant woman who was presumed to have an affair with another man was kicked out from the house when it wasn't true. As usual, Men will take advantage of this situation. Her husband got drunk and slept with another woman. Sure, it wasn't his fault because he was both miserable and drunk and wasn't sound - it was out of his reach perhaps. Still, it happened. And how could you let yourself be involved in such circumstances! And later on in the show, after pouring out his guilt and confessing to his wife, he actually did it again. WITH THE SAME WOMAN.

Now, that's something you should really look into, that ungrateful beast. After being forgiven, he actually did it again, the vast difference this time is he was perfectly SANE.

The issue here is, if you are desperate for sex and you can't have it because your wife is pregnant, at least, THINK OF WHAT YOU DID TO YOUR WIFE. You are responsible for her pregnancy. Don't be a selfish animal and sleep around like nobody's business! Seriously, has the world gone mad!

And although, my religion actually allows polygamy. I can't stand how some people are actually implying it, portraying self-centeredness. Polygamy is not a tool. Not a tool for satisfaction or weapon to defeat your enemies. It is not a field to play on. It is as simple as marriage and since it involves marriages, you have to be both responsible and sincere. Being Responsible and Ready, the man has to face the challenge of handling two or more households. The woman has to be sincere in accepting her fate. Most importantly, both parties have to be Committed and LOYAL. I pray for fairness and the rights of women. It's painful to see such treatment given to women regarding this matters. Although it can't be seen, it really affects them emotionally and mentally.

Sometimes to talk and express helps one to calm your nerves and just relax..
Sometimes prayers do the job too, cause you know you're not alone and God is listening..
MasyaAllah, does it feel good to express via blogging or what! (: